About Me

About Me

My name is Carmen Brown. I am married to an amazing man of God named Anthony. Which of whom I love to serve the Lord with.  We are blessed with four beautiful children and one on the way. All of them are so very different. Mostly because they are all in different stages of their life. My oldest daughter is 14, oldest son is 10, then our little girl is 3, and last but not least our youngest son is 1.


I became a stay at home mom four years ago. I love it. Every day is a new day and is never the same. I truly believe after giving my life to Christ, he showed me how much I was meant to be a mom. The success of my career was suddenly on the low end of priories.


I love reading books, blogs, or articles that has anything to do with marriage.  I can not start a day without a cup of coffee. Coffee is just amazing to me! On hectic days it’s pretty much breakfast, lunch, and dinner to me. (I do not recommend that!).


I love writing and been doing it for years.  It’s always been therapeutic to me. I felt like writing for others to see was tugging at me for two years prior before starting a blog. I love to write to encourage myself and others through writing about my passion for the Lord. Blogging is not how I thought I would do it, but after some major research, here I am with a blog!


My Mission:


My mission is to be led by God. In 2009 I dedicated my life to the Lord. I was going through a tough divorce and felt very much alone. I was ministered to through a Freedom class then a movie at a church event. Instantly I was sold out for the Lord. I became a true believer that God will and can, heal, deliver, and restore.


When divorce happened about a year later, I never doubted what God was doing. I knew that all things worked together for the good to those who love Him and was called for His purpose. I sought Him and asked Him to direct my steps. After much forgiveness and surrendering all my cares to Him, He healed me, delivered me, and restored me.


I have now been married to my husband Anthony for four years and love every bit of it. He is a man after Gods heart. We are in agreement that our mission is to be led by God in all that we do.


Purpose of Blog:

As I began the adventure of blogging in my life, I hoped to inspire and encourage other women with the Word of God of what being a wife and stay at home mother is as a follower of Christ. I hope to express understanding, compassion, and love to all the beautiful, strong, graceful mothers that read this.


I want to share about the blessings of building up our homes as godly wives and mothers. My deepest desire is to build a home that represents Christ and with the Lords help I would like to express all that comes with it to you.


Building a Blog:

Since blogging, I have developed a love for encouraging new bloggers. After reading a high statistic number of how many bloggers fail per year I became heartbroken wondering how many of them were Bloggers spreading the gospel. I immediately began writing  to new bloggers about how to blog, how to build a blog, and how our blog is needed.

I lead a private Facebook group that is specifically for Christian Women Bloggers, By His Grace Bloggers.

The purpose of the group is help others use their blog as a ministry and to build as an entrepreneur. My admin, Natalie and I teach on branding, social media, building a following. We also encourage bloggers to use their blog as a ministry through their writings and to follow the desire God has placed in us as Christian Bloggers. This group has been the biggest blessing to me in my blogging journey.

I have also created a eBook specifically for Christian Bloggers. The eBook is about how to build a blog and to establish yourself as a Christian Blogger.

The “By His Grace We Blog” eBook consists of 17 chapters that is full of steps of how to build your blog. You can find out more here.


Married By His Grace:

Founded 2016. Married By his Grace was created because His grace is upon us. I am married to my husband that I have the honor to serve the Lord with because of His grace. I am able to write about marriage and being a mother because of His grace. When I gave my life to Christ, I started a lifelong relationship with the Lord. I am married to the Lord first and I have a marriage with Him because of grace. As I write this blog I hope for us women to receive His grace through the lifelong relationship we have with Him.


For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God. Ephesians 2:8



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    Olivia May
    September 30, 2017 at 6:35 pm

    I love your blog! Thank you for sharing your story and your heart openly! I am a new blogger and trying to share God’s impact on my life and your blog has helped me keep on track when writing some of my stuff! God Bless!
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      [email protected]
      October 10, 2017 at 2:01 pm

      Thank you so much Olivia for taking time to read my blog and commenting. I am so blessed by your kind words!!

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    Heather B.
    September 12, 2017 at 8:42 am

    I found your blog recently and I have really enjoyed reading your posts! I am currently working on creating my own Christian blog and have found your content to be very helpful. Thank you!

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      [email protected]
      September 13, 2017 at 2:19 pm

      Heather, I am so glad you have found the blog to be helpful and congratulations for starting a new blog. Please feel free to start reach out to me any time if you have any questions about blogging. I will definitely do my best assist you! =)

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    September 6, 2017 at 9:01 pm

    Bless You Woman of God, its a blessing to come across your blog! I can tell you put much work into this blog, but by the grace of god i know that you dont look at it as work but as a gift to be able to blog, for you find pleasure in spreading the word of god to woman all over! Therefore bless your genuine heart , and love for The Lord God, for you are one called to be a worshipper as that of the woman at the well, your callings is to tell many “COME SEE A MAN” and your blogs are more enlightening then you know or understand, many have read and commented, but many have also come across your page and havent said a word, but were moved by the words presented on this site! Therefore keep pushing woman of god, my husband always says, “throw enough mud against the wall, somethings got to stick” !! Thank You again for sharing your experiences with the world, for they have blessed me so much!

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    Tiffany Trawick
    September 6, 2017 at 10:12 am

    Thank you for creating such a gracious space for new bloggers. I’m in my 5th month (as of three days ago) and I am just now venturing out into more intentional branding. I plan to make your resources a part of this exciting yet challenging phase…

    Also, I’m recently engaged to a man who loves God just as much as I do and guess what! His name is Anthony too! Haha. I look forward to following your blog and hopefully connecting down the line. Prayer and blessings!

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      [email protected]
      September 6, 2017 at 12:06 pm

      So glad you visited today Tiffany! That is way too funny and cute about our husbands names. My blogging bestie and I are both married to Anthonys too!! Five months of blogging is a great phase. Its a time to reflect on all the things you have learned and now build it up to your vision! I love blogging and I especially love it with God leading it. I truly hope you are enjoying with Him too!! =)

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    Rochelle Tyme
    March 22, 2017 at 6:24 am

    Thank you for your post on Relevant Entrepreneur. It was very helpful! Also enjoyed checking out your blog. Always nice to see people uplifting marriage! 🙂

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      [email protected]
      March 22, 2017 at 9:04 pm

      Thank you Rochelle for your visit from Relevant Entrepreneur!! I hope Married by His Grace has encouraged you today!

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    Erin@ www.burdenfreecaregiving.com
    March 13, 2017 at 6:35 am

    I just ran across your blog and love what you stand for. Your testimony is amazing. Looking forward to reading more of your post. God bless you in your blogging and in your home.

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      [email protected]
      March 14, 2017 at 7:19 am

      Thank you Erin for your kind words. I am so blessed that you are enjoying the blog. Thank you for your blessings!

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    August 19, 2016 at 4:10 pm

    I love what this blog is about. As a married woman it is amazing to recognize that it is the grace of God that makes our union with our work. He is the head of the family as long as we surrender to him.

    We are so thankful we found this blog and share our experience with others. So sure we will be back here for more. God bless you beautiful Carmen

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    Natalie @ Milk & Honey Faith
    July 8, 2016 at 9:40 pm

    I’m just reading this for the first time and I just love it. Would you believe that my Husband’s name is Anthony too?!! What are the odds lol? It’s a blessing to learn more about you and to hear how the Lord is so present in your life and your marriage. Amen!

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    April 16, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    God is good. May He continue to bless you on your new journey! God bless.

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